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Essential eBay: Tips and Tricks for the Online Auction

by Emmalyne Squires Farris

I'm an avid eBay user, and I have been since the mid 1990's. I've bought everything from children's clothes to a brand new motorcycle (my husband's purchase, I might add). I also buy a lot of one-of-a-kind rock and roll memorabilia and other collectibles. Basically, the things I always look for are:

1) payment options-I almost always use PayPal because it is so simple and now they protect your purchases. I've used PayPal for years and have never been disappointed. I've bought other items on eBay using other methods of payment (never, ever, ever send cash and be REALLY careful about sending a personal check), but only if it were something that I absolutely had to have and I couldn't get it any other way. Fortunately, I've never been burned, but I have had to email one person continuously and threaten legal action until I received my purchase.

2) seller feedback-I always check feedback before I bid on anything. Anyone can have an irritated customer, so if someone has one or two feedbacks that seem out of character when compared to the rest of the feedback, I take that with a grain of salt. If it looks like the feedback is iffy, I don't bid.

3) seller location-I think this is really important, and it's something that most people don't check. As a rule, I only buy from the U.S., Canada, U.K., Australia/New Zealand, or a western European country. I've gotten some great products from Sweden and Switzerland, but those are rare. English and Canadian sellers are wonderful to deal with, but buying from sellers in the U.S. is your safest bet. It's important to click on the seller's name when looking at an item because often where the item description says the seller is located is different from the member profile's statement of location. You'll find this happen a lot with sellers in southeast Asia. The item will say the seller is in the U.S., but really, the seller is in Hong Kong. That's not a good sign, especially if you're bidding $15 on an "authentic" Coach bag. The chances are really good that it's not a real Coach bag, but a cheap knockoff made in Hong Kong. I certainly have nothing against a cheap knockoff-in fact, I have a Kate Spade bag that's such a good fake that the salesperson at Saks, which sold the authentic bag, was fooled and amazed when I told her it was a fake. As long as the seller comes clean and says it's a knockoff, I'm all for it. It's when a seller is trying to defraud you that I'm against it.

4) photos of items-I don't think I've ever actually bid on anything that didn't have at least one photo posted with the description. Digital cameras are not expensive, and if someone is going to go to the trouble of posting something on eBay, there's really no excuse of not posting a picture.

5) Finally, do your homework. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Occasionally, you'll get a good deal on something, which is the whole point of eBay, but know what you're bidding on/buying. For example, there's currently a videotape being offered on eBay of an episode of "The Patty Duke Show" from 1965 that allegedly features the British singing duo Peter & Gordon. While I have no doubt that the seller is offering tapes of episodes of "The Patty Duke Show," Peter & Gordon were never on that show. Instead, it was another British singing duo, Chad & Jeremy who appeared on the show. While I don't think that the seller is trying to defraud anyone, I would hate to think that a Peter & Gordon fan would blindly buy the tape, only to discover that it's Chad & Jeremy. The same thing definitely goes for sellers who probably are trying to defraud you. Designer handbags are hot eBay items, and there are a ton of good copies and bad copies. As long as you know that you're buying a copy, that's fine, but most of the time, sellers don't 'fess up, so buyers need to do a little research before sending their hard-earned money (for example, authentic Louis Vuitton bags never ever have any kind of cuts through the LV logo, so if you see a picture of a bag with only part of the LV logo going into a seam, it's a fake). There are a lot of internet sites that will tell you how to spot fake bags, jeans, etc. In fact, eBay offers forums on spotting fakes.

eBay  has really improved their member relations. They'll answer email and do everything possible to resolve conflicts between seller and buyer. Anyone interested in signing up for eBay does need to read the readily-available info that eBay provides, but once you've signed up and actually located, bid, and won that adorable top that matches those pants you found at Gymboree for next to nothing for your little sweetie, you'll be hooked. eBay is really a lot of fun once you really know what you're doing. :)

 

 

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